"Have I Done Any Good" was taken from the LDS hymnal #223. "Have I done any good in the world today? Have I helped anyone in need? Have I cheered up the sad and made someone feel glad? If not, I have failed indeed. Has anyone's burden been lighter today Because I was williing to share? Have the sick and weary been helped on their way? When they needed my help was I there? (vs 1) For the answers see chorus and vs 2.

Monday, May 20, 2024

Good People Everywhere

Today was a great day for N. Macedonia
These are Elders Jeffrey, McNiven, Adamson and Lindsay.  They are the only missionaries in the country of North Macedonia.  They are the only missionaries who speak Macedonian.  They are in the Albania mission but never transfer to the 23 other companionships in the mission because no one else speaks Macedonian.  This day they are full of smiles.  For the first time the Book of Mormon has been published in Macedonian!

They are so excited to hold a Book of Mormon in the language of the people they teach.
These good missionaries are on a mission to spread the good book.
(Sadly, every one of them will be going home in July 
after two years and no replacements are in sight!)


Let me share some of the other good people we have crossed paths with lately.
This is a new consultation room for the Skopje Hospital intensive care unit.  They honored us with much appreciation.  
Your donations made this possible.


These are three remodeled rooms at the Mother Teresa Senior Home in Skopje.
Your donations made this possible.


This is a new elevator at a public school with 30 handicapped children.
The parents had to carry the children and their wheelchairs up and down the stairs each day.
Your donations made this possible.


The whole school turned out to show much appreciation.  There was a terrific program put on by the students.  The mayor and television crews were on hand.
Kristi and the mayor cut the ribbon.
Your donations made this possible.


The school provided a feast of local food for the invited "dignitaries".


We were impressed by what kind and good people were associated with the school.
These Muslim girls were excited to practice their english with Kristi.


Below are all the missionaries in Kosovo.
They unloaded all and assembled some of 380 new wheelchairs for Kosovo.
Yes, Kosovo has only one senior couple, David & Colleen Long (MLS) and only six younger missionaries, Sisters Liddicott, Lindsay and Elders Leblow, Vasas, Secrest, Bredikhin.


The folks at Handicos in Prishtina distribute the chairs all over Kosovo.
They are good people as are these missionaries.
Your donations made this possible.


This is the Muhaxhiri family.  
Sharii is the new Branch President in Gjakova, Kosovo where we live half the time.  
The young missionary, Elder Pimentel, was released as Branch President and transferred.
We usually have 12 - 15 at church each Sunday.  As you can see almost half are pictured below.
They are good people.


Everywhere we go, we find very dedicated, selfless people, willing to help those in need and give of their time to improve the lives of others.  I am so impressed with so many people living for and contributing to the needs of others.  My pessimistic view of the world is beginning to change.

I am realizing that YOU are a good person.  Your donations - to any cause outside yourself -
has qualified you as a good person.

The projects I mentioned did not come about by us but by YOU!

Kristi wanted her photo taken by this mural, she is good in trying to teach me.



Wednesday, May 1, 2024

"Good Grief"

Grief is mental suffering.  
I suppose I have experienced that in a small way but take comfort in knowing that 
"thy afflictions shall be but a small moment."  The good part is the growth afterward.
When I tell you my "grief" you will roll your eyes and laugh, but to me it has been real.


We prepared ourselves for what we thought would be our role of relieving the suffering of humanity in this corner of the world.  We were mentally prepared for changes but not prepared for the detail of the work.  Remember we had been to the MTC, Salt Lake City Headquarters Mission and then cooled our heels in Albania and then a B&B.  It seems we needed more training.  Lots and lots of training.

So first we flew to Frankfurt, Germany.
Those are the Sar Mountains, dividing N. Macedonia and Kosovo (the two countries we live in).


In Frankfurt we met with five other couples assigned to different countries in central Europe.


We learned we were in the Central Europe Area of the Church (one of 23 world divisions).
Kristi and I serve in the green section of the Area, along with many others.


You can see that the Welfare and Self-Reliance portion of the Area is very organized.
The Church does employ a lot of folks.  We are down at the bottom of "Field Operations" where it shows six managers and twenty-one couple Senior Missionaries.  The other areas also have a few Senior Missionaries assigned.  There is a great need for more.  
Good grief, what have I gotten myself into?


We were gone four days and they tried to fill our heads with new forms and reports, more computer insights, software training, financial reports, evaluation criteria and reports,  protocols and the necessity of keeping receipts for ten years.  Good Grief.  Now please, just let us get to work.

No, not yet, they wanted us to share how great an experience being a senior missionary is, so in the evening we experienced old fashioned German bowling.  No gutters and creative scoring.  I must admit I had fun and of course winning is always fun.


We went to the Senior Missionary family home evening.  There are a lot of senior missionaries in Frankfurt.  These four couples were heading home.


Another evening we went to the Frankfurt Temple.


So now we are pumped full of new information and ready to put it to use?  
No, not yet.  On our return we were invited to the Albania Mission couples' conference.

We drove down through N. Macedonia to Korce, Albania.
It was beautiful and I said, "Good grief, are we just tourists now"?





Our Mission leaders are great people and we did learn more, but also had fun activities.

This is President and Sister Auras.  They are helping and teaching us all, in the three countries of Albania, Kosovo and North Macedonia.  There are nineteen senior missionaries and less than sixty young Elders and Sisters. The Auras' are serving here for three years from Germany.


Sunday was Branch Conference in Korce, Albania.


Monday was P-day or preparation day.
We watched and ate at a demonstration of making a traditional food of Byret.
It was especially good.



The next day was the Mission Conference with all the young missionaries in the mission.


They are bright, intelligent, conversant in Albanian and Macedonian, and in touch with the Spirit.
I have been so impressed with their work ethic and love for the people they serve among.
It is a delight to be around them.  
(And none of them call me "Older Skidmore" yet, rather than Elder Skidmore.)
OK, one more photo - can I go home now?  I can't contain one more drop of learning.


GOOD GRIEF, all of a sudden we are almost on our own.  
We are starting to get in the swing of things.  
Our world is meeting new people every day, emails, forms, starting projects, monitoring projects, documenting projects, filing every bit of information with each project and then seeing that it is closed and that everything is accounted for.  
"Almost" on our own.
We can call Frankfurt any time.
We can call other Humanitarian couples, any time.
There is even a help line with the main software we use.
This is "but a small moment."
GOOD GRIEF - with prayer we are never alone.







 

Sunday, April 14, 2024

Everyone Does Good

We have moved quite a bit these last nine weeks.  When traveling we try to unpack and settle into a place, no matter how short a stay.  Sadly, it has seemed impossible in so small a space and with so many suitcases and bags to unpack, there just wasn't room where we stayed . . . so we have been living out of our suitcases until now.  Often, strangers would offer to help with our luggage.  

There are good people everywhere.

We finally moved into our flat in Gjakova, Kosovo.  It is pretty bare but the landlord promised a new bed for Saturday.   This was my view from bed when I awoke my first morning in the new flat.


Not too bad.  Then I got up and looked out from our 6th floor deck.


We needed to get back to Macedonia to check on a school that the Church was helping to provide an elevator for the disabled students. 


There are 25 to 30 children in this school of 1600 students who are handicapped, but have classes upstairs with the older kids.  The teachers and parents carry them up two flights of stairs for the day where they remain until taken downstairs.  (Below is just the second flight of stairs)


This is the footing/hole where the elevator will be located in an inner courtyard.


Suzana, the principal, was very happy to see us and very hopeful about the 
elevator.  She does a lot of good.


When we are on the road, Kristi will run into a bakery and grab some fresh rolls with cheese and jam for lunch.  Every morning this type of shop is full and by the end of the day it is empty.  These good people make my life easy.


One strange sight I found while looking for more electrical plugs was this set of toys hanging on the wall.
When we got the call to the Albania mission, one of the first things I did was search out the golf clubs in the three countries.  I was shocked that there were none!  So what do I find - toy golf clubs.  Clearly someone has the same hope that I do.  Perhaps somehow it could be a humanitarian project to benefit women and children by getting men out of their way and to a golf course.  (?)


I am surprised by the number of good people who want to have their photo taken with us.
This neighbor lived in Palm Springs for a while.


There is a recycling program in one of the villages we drove through.
Someone is a leader in being good.


On Saturday Maslina was baptized in Skopje.
She is freshly good and surrounded by very good Elders.


Sometimes you forget the good that is really close to you.
Occasionally, I get reminded in a big way.


Monday, April 1, 2024

Searching for Good in N. Macedonia

 Our job or "calling" is to find areas that need some good done.  It is a little frustrating as we learn about two countries needs while still in temporary quarters.  Without a visa to N. Macedonia we will be traveling there on tourist status.  This week we finally made it to N. Macedonia to find our home for half of the time.  Dividing Kosovo from Macedonia are mountains.  This is the pass you look for to go south.  



The highway through the canyon is quite impressive.


We made our way to the city of Skopje, N. Macedonia, and to our duplex.
We were happy to see a little yard and carport.  Met our nice landlord and neighbors.


Inside was the "famous" chair all the missionaries in this mission mentioned.  President Russell M. Nelson sat in that chair when he visited after setting the nation of Macedonia apart for missionary work.  I figured if I was 85 and needed to sit down, that would be the chair I would choose. (That was 2010).  
I put a pillow in the back and find it the best chair in the house.


Kristi jumped at the chance to weed. . .


and I got the lawn mowed.


The famous Stone Bridge is just under a mile in a straight line from where we live.


Skopje is a city of statues.  There are reportedly 284 within the city center.  One of the largest is of Alexander the Great behind Kristi, it is eight stories high.

After finding the only four Elders in the nation, we were invited to a Wednesday night game night with the local members. 

We found the church near the middle of town.


After much research and finding the right words. . . I bravely went for a haircut, to the best barber in town.
Well . . .  it seems I got the standard Balkan haircut.


We went shopping for some food and household items.
It turns out our plastic money is just like Macedonian plastic money.



On the whole, we have found one more beautiful country.  We hope to be able to do some good here.


It is easy to find our way home in Macedonia.  We live on the bottom of the big hill that has the lighted "Millennium Cross" at the top.  Look closely in the photo,  it is 217 feet tall and marks the path for us and all who follow Jesus Christ.  Hope you all had as good an Easter as we have.